It can definitely hurt to lose somebody that you love, especially if you feel like you can never get them back. However, even if your ex told you that they never want to be with you again because of something that you did, that is never going to be the case. The fact is that your ex used to be attracted to you, so what you have to do is just get the attraction back in order to get them back.

Here are the 3 steps you can follow to help you get the attraction back:

Step 1: Leave Them Be

You might be wondering how you can get your ex to become attracted to you again with talking to them. Well, be patient and see. If you just let things be, the very least that will happen is that you won’t fight – a common tendency among couples that break up.

What you have to do here is show them how strong you actually are. While crying is alright at this stage, there is no need to let them know how hurt you are; otherwise, they might just get back together with you because of sympathy. Also, since crying will let them know that you still love them, they won’t necessarily feel the need to rush back into your arms and might just date around first to spite you.

Step 2: Fill Your Life with Great Things

While waiting, do something with your free time. Join clubs. Start new hobbies that you’ve been meaning to start but never had the time to. Learn musical instruments. Meet new people. Generally speaking, just become a better and more interesting person overall.

There is no need for your ex to know that you are waiting around for them. In fact, if they see how busy and happy you are, they might get scared of losing you altogether and try to get you back themselves.

Step 3: Contact Them.

After a week, you can start contacting your ex again if you are ready. If you aren’t, then wait a little bit more. Conversely, if your ex contacts you before you decide to contact them, then it will be up to you to decide if you want to answer or not. It would be vital not to break any of your plans to see them, though. Ideally, you shouldn’t make a big deal out of the situation since nonchalance is another great way to get the attraction back.

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